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Well the infamous Themuxluxblog.com is back by popular demand and it's been a while! Actually 349 days since nonsense met common sense to dropped some much needed 2 Cent knowledge on this major foolishness going on. I wi…
When 2017 rolled in I was devising a Plan on how I could become the best ME. In fact I even wrote my first book basically explaining that: Mobile Aspiration Assessing Accepting and Advancing You!(Yeah I know it’s a lot o…
In a year where 1+1 equalled Three and Wrong was always right, i'd say 2016 ushered in more surprises than a surprise birthday party in the Bermuda Triangle on a leap year. Leaving 2016 for many couldn't come fast enough…
Well it's that time again. You know that thing we do once every four years. Yeah it's time to pick your President! I remember my first post on Themuxluxblog.com, where I whole heartedly endorsed President Obama and tried…
You know the funny thing about power is that it needs justice along with compliance and sometimes submission to maintain its power. It bears an enormous responsibility of holding whole societies together,while keeping or…
In between consciousness and sleep, my subconscious was busy at work forecasting the upcoming days, weeks and months while updating the next 24 hours. So much that my REM popped open my left eye, only to discover it was…
...and just like that 'The Mux' has returned.! So before I get started, I just wanted to say," I missed my peoples". January to June sure has come in a flash but not without so so so so so so many things to talk about. H…
Welcome to TheMuxLuxBlog where nonsense meets common sense. #TMLB is all about CEO's(current event opinions) MyTOE(my take on everything) and stories that need to be told! I haven't posted regularly due to a piece of wor…
Day one of 2015 and the reset button has officially been set! Whatever 2014 produced is History...literally. The focus is to move forward in positive steps. We all know the challenges and changes 2014 birthed. The year o…
As the year rounds the corner and the biggest Holiday shopping season commences, you'd think the most wonderful time of the year be filled with good will toward men and a whole lot of bargain shopping. I mean everybody's…
Where should I start? Oh I know! Take a long deep breathe, hold it and slowly exhale. Now don't you feel better. As far as the Themuxluxblog is concerned, the only problem I've come across lately is a stiff neck from #SM…
As goes Ohio, so goes the nation! At least that's what they say in the world of politics where political parties are clamoring to hold their conventions in the buckeye state. It doesn't stop there, Johnny football joined…
Hey, did I ever tell you how THEMUXLUXBLOG came to be? Yeah, I probably did. I know it's somewhere here in these mash-ups of dissertations. Having a mouthpiece for my self proclaimed quirky philosophy has been both a rew…
Just when I thought I had it all figured out, Apple buys Beats by Dre for 3 Bil+ and joins the party(those hipsters). Better late than never I'd say. I guess it's only fitting that the demise of the download would come f…
Protest is the new Black! So says the power couple King Technology and Queen Social Media, who's fusion unofficially dubbed dissent (do to injustice or perceived injustice) the righter of wrongs. Translation, you just ca…
As I put pen to paper to write these thoughts I glare downward seeing my reflection on my blackened smartphone and notice the expression on my face. It's quite a handsome profile of calm but what I'm actually feeling ins…
In the midst of the mundane, monotonous and routine day to day, TheMuxLuxBlog took a well deserved impulse break, Which gives me the excuse to say..."Pardon my absents from the month of March. It's such a fickle 31 days…
#Themuxluxblog woke up this morning feeling some type of way, which can best be described as implanting prosperous thoughts. In the spirit of Black History Month I feel it's my duty to set a positive tone for the new yea…
Madiba to many, Nelson Mandela to everyone else. A planet pays tribute to a Man with a soul that was created to give strength, leadership, refuge and courage to bystanders, the defenseless and admirers of justice. Nelson…
As the Thanksgiving feasts end and we've gained our collective pounds, the fun and good cheer begin with themuxluxblog.com favorite time of the year. The eternal kid inside all of us, seems to influence and navigate thro…
Allow me to set the scene. Imagine the Mecca of sports. No scrap that! Envision the biggest stage in the World, hosting the fastest growing sport in the world with rabid fans from sea to shining sea waiting for the golde…
The complexity of the human body and spirit is amazing. The more we learn about ourselves, seems like the less we know. We are intelligently designed in what could be described as almost perfect and what we can create is…
November has swooped in and it's hard to define the feel of it. Being from New York I'm use to the month before December being more consistent in its attitude. These roller coaster temps have me thinking Mother Nature is…
The last of the trick or treats have buzzed my door. My bad, I meant they're still coming and it's after 8pm, however my stash seems full. It must have been a light turn out this year. Blame it on the rain. In any case t…
I woke up this morning with a taste for a cream cheese raisin bagel but settled for a bowl of Frosted Flakes. My craving must not have been enough to affect the change because Tony the Tiger was great(#rimshot). Now by l…
It's good to be back in the land of the 'Mux' where nonsense meets common sense. You know that place you arrive at everyday when you try to rationalize the ridiculous. During my brief post hiatus, I've been scratching my…
I make it my business not to walk in other people shoes. They usually don't fit. Plus walking alongside them gives you a better vantage point for what's coming ahead. Surprises don't seem as disappointing or amazing when…
When Passion met Progress, they immediately fell in love, married and conceived Happiness. As the years wore on, the couple fell out of sync. Passion's patience grew short for Progress slow response. It took a toll on th…
With all the looming doom and gloom scenarios on deck, themuxluxblog.com figured why not be apart of the solution. Besides, I said my peace and piling onto nonsense only begets nonsense. We all could use is a little rela…
For those who are in the business of cutting off their nose to spite the face, we @themuxluxblog offer two recommendations. I know the number to this great plastic surgeon and The House of Representatives is hiring. Any…
Periodically I give a tutorial on what exactly is The Mux Lux Blog. Since it's Friday night and work is a distant memory, let's take a stroll with your cocktail in hand and explore this unknown phenomenon. For all the ne…
In an already crowded job market, job seekers and career advancement steadily face a rising tide of stiff competition and scarcity. With productivity, followed by the stock market at an all time high, one would think the…
In a sea full of many, only a few #standout and if you drill down further, the ones with influence tend to miss the mark more than they hit it. So what is @themuxluxblog trying to say? Simply put, there is great talent i…
Today I had the pleasure of being in the company of a career A@#hole who masked their talents under the guise of manners. I never realized the difference between the definition of being polite and being nice. The two are…
They say when you own a pet long enough it starts to resemble you or does the owner morph into its pet. Either way, when you spend a substantial amount of time with someone or something, characteristics tend to exchange…
When your hungry for a good time, make sure you pack a little excitement and variety. A change of scenery will definitely spice up a dull moment. For themuxluxblog.com, Dave & Busters provided the place to unwind. Beside…
It feels good to be back after a twelve day sabbatical. So much has transpired that themuxluxblog.com would like to trim some of the fat on the never ending bloated news cycle and serve up what's really important. First…
A Wreslter, a Kickboxer and a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu guy walk into a bar. Nine shots and three pints later a MMA fight broke out! How's that for an intro? I know, I know stick to my day job. While we are on the subject of m…
When the Tortoise beat the Hare in that legendary race, do you think he was concerned about how long it would take? If I were to take a guess, I'd say his focus must have been on the business at hand and that would be to…
You know I love Friday's. It's the one day you look forward too, to let loose and have fun. Even if your a weekend warrior working that next day on Saturday morning and have to be to work at 6am...it's worth the Friday n…
August slid in as fast as July checked out and those three words(back to school) are no longer whispers. I almost tripped over a notebook display at CVS the other day. Before you get depressed let me just say "there's st…
I tuned into the Steve Harvey Morning Show and heard a live performance from India Arie singing a song from her new Album titled "Songversation". I hadn't heard anything from her in a while and she stated it was her best…
I've been at this blog game for about a little over a year now and it has taught me a lot about myself and even more about people. It has made me a better speller(thanks to auto correct), more focused and conscience of w…
Dammit! I was just writing this really good post and as I was finishing it I hit the backspace button and pressed something else and before I knew it, (Bam)...it was gone. Man I hate when that happens, especially when it…
It just dawned on me that the universal key that unlocks all passages through life be it good or bad are "Words". Not to confuse altercation or contention but the actual conversation, talk or communication that connects…
A buddy of mine text me a pic the other day. It was of my nephew and his son posing in front of his pool. You see these two are 16 and 17 year old buddies that are dedicated wrestlers and good students. Just a couple of…
With all the high emotional headlines and current events that have stirred this melting pot, I would like us all who cares, to step back for a moment and take a deep breath. When you exhale, thank God for your loved ones…
In all fairness I accept that the climate of life is cold and unfair. I think we all at some point have received the short end of the stick. Some more than others. However my question to you is #howmuchisalifeworththesed…
I have a lot to say but my words are mute. My expectations where in check but reality still provided that insurmountable WOW factor that my brain has yet had a chance to fully comprehend. I'll save it for Monday even tho…
It's the weekend, summer's here, the kids are out of school, and depending on where you live, it's hot. What else is new?..A lot! Today however is not the time for me to filter through all the rumors, scandal, and scoops…
If there ever was a name for turning nothing into something else, or even better, a place where nonsense could have a beer with common sense then I guess the only logical thing to call it or place to be is THEMUXLUXBLOG.…
July 1st is here, the second half of the year is commencing and time ain't waiting for nobody. If I could give a movie title for 2013 thus far it would be "Nothing surprises me any more." Every time there's a unprecedent…
On the last day of June I feel it's my duty to enjoy the moment at hand and express to you that everything is unimportant but necessary. Mowing the lawn to have it grow back is just redundant, however if you don't your y…
Firstly, I would like to apologize to my readers and the month of June for allowing 29 days to pass without a post. Neglect was not my intention but somehow circumstantial needs beat out my superficial wants. In layman's…
Heading into the Holiday weekend I prepare for some celebration with family and friends. What can be better? Not much. In fact since I didn't win the big Powerball Jackpot, I'd figure I blow off some steam barbecuing and…
"That buck that bought the bottle could have struck the Lotto." Wise words from Nas never sounded so true. Tonight's Powerball is 360 Million dollars. A whole lot of Mula and with around 200 million after taxes(give or t…
First things first, Happy Mothers Day to all the wonderful Mother's in the world who nurture, heal and motivate the masses. I for one would like to give a big thank you to my Momma in heaven. I never would have made it w…
I'm usually never short for words, and as far as expressing oneself, it usually comes out as 'Easy' as "Straight outta Compton" did with N.W.A. However some roads are rough and this segue(seg-wey) is as bumpy as they com…
On this Cinco de Mayo, I sit back with a Corona in hand and get ready to watch the "Knicks play basketball" and reflect on how the days will become more beautiful because it's that time of the year. Just as things stay t…
Are you ready for an adventure? Okay, go grab your passport and spin the globe. Where it stops nobody knows, except for themuxluxblog.com, who will be your tour guide to this small Central American country with a big hea…
I just drew a blank. Is there a name for something you want that you can't get. Oh yeah I think I remember. It's called "not trying hard enough" or maybe "wasn't meant for". Okay you don't have to try to figure out what…
In times like these you may want to become more cognizant of every thing around you, as if your life in this world needed more scrutiny. Somehow the beauty and horrors of this existence mesh together in ways we would nev…
This post was originally written on 4/2/13, but due to some technical difficulties could not be recorded till today...In loving memory of Mom. Just imagine touching the hand of God and carrying that feeling with you thro…
People have more in common than what we assume we do and most issues or disagreements could be remedied if the Will is there. So in the absence of a mediator when someone takes your parking space you've been patiently wa…
It's the return of the meaningful place to feed your brain and vacation your mind or in layman's term themuxluxblog.com is back. I've been away on my international rendezvous of sort and came back with a bunch of goodies…
Time is a place where the duration of events can be measured by past, present and future. It is the thread that binds the dimensions together. It's simplistic as it is difficult to explain. Based on two great minds and p…
Hey today I'm firing on all cylinders for this special occasion and this time I'm on time. Seems like a few days ago I was celebrating our 7th month anniversary and guess what, today It's Eight months and counting. Themu…
It's good exercise for your brain to learn something new everyday. Now my motto for the daily fun facts seeker or knowledge pursuer is to "let it come to you". It should be as effortless as breathing, or blinking. With s…
Are we forgetting how to communicate with one another? Well, let me put it another way... Do we need a social network to social network? Or are we deleting are face to face social skills and personalities for a more arti…
Okay I know I'm a little late but on February 11th 2013 themuxluxblog.com celebrated its 7th month anniversary. Release the confetti and pop the champagne. It was not forgotten but strategically left out for the simple f…
With all the unlimited potential of the internet, every business is vying for your business and looking for new ways to catch your eyes. Everyday new technology companies are born just to break down algorithms and find n…
Fear is an emotion that can cause inaction and action. It could freeze you in your tracks or cause you to overreact. Fear Is funny like that when it starts to take shots of adrenaline. It's the bodies super juice, break…
Surprises are great when something you least expect you wanted is served to you on a platter. Surprises can also be a knock out blow when your fighting a bad situation and you don't see the unexpected coming. Thank goodn…
You know people amaze me. Okay, let me expand. There are some sperm that shouldn't reach an egg, thoughts that shouldn't be thought and mouths that shouldn't speak. So what am I getting at? The complexity and variety of…
Time to brush off the old cobwebs from my keyboard and get back to what we all love and missed for a few days, some commentary from themuxluxblog.com. Sorry for the absence but I was a little under the weather. Well that…
Everybody needs a little love and on this Valentine's day I would like to wish all the special Ladies out there together or single a Happy V day. Some people make a big deal out of it and others just see it as another Ha…
Today's little pick me up is dedicated to the person who takes a chance on his or her dream and leaves the word regret in the same place where a good meal ends up. If you understood my first sentence then you've won half…
The top trending word this weekend in my book is Snow and if your from the northeast, particularly the Tri-state area(NY, NJ, CT) you know what I'm talking about. We've been a little snow deprived for the past few years…
Being that it's Black History month and I'm black, themuxluxblog.com would like to record a little history with my take on the contribution and trajectory of the African American people. First and foremost, what makes Am…
You ever get boxed in by two trucks at a light and can't pass because there moving less than 5 MPH but to big to get around. Or what about when the light turns green and it takes them 18 seconds to get out of 1st gear. I…
The great Swami once said, those who make predictions and get them right are lucky for that day. Too bad I ain't a betting man. As you should all know by now, the Ravens flew the coup with the Super Bowl win but the 49er…
The only thing that matters is what you think is important. Like hanging out with friends, having fun, making a difference, making babies, being a jerk, reading a book, loving and fighting with your loved ones, or anythi…
Friday is the week's most famous sibling. If any thing is gonna pop off Friday is gonna be the fuse. There is one day out of the year that Friday is the snack, appetizer, a warm up act to a Super Big Deal. Super Bowl Sun…
When I first started themuxluxblog.com I didn't know what to expect or where it would lead me. All I knew and know is that there is a path that must be walked and at what pace I go is all up to me. So the journey has beg…
Oh boy, what a day can change. This weather is as Schizo as they come. Monday was sub freezing slush/snow/ice mix that had me feeling a little depressed for no reason. Well since I spend time outdoors at work and I must…
With Valentine's day rapidly approaching, love has a funny way of finding it's match more easily than in any other time of the year. Like the flu the love bug can spread to unsuspecting individuals and awaken the romanti…
Privacy is becoming a thing of the past. Hell, we give it up freely and don't even know it. Just sign up for any free thing online and we have to check that little box at the end to agree to their agreements so they can…
"You better watch what comes out of your mouth" is what I warned my little one as I watched her face contort into a motion that was about to release some sassy words. She smiled like an angel and giggled her way out of t…
The week is coming to an end and it's snowing on a Friday night. Here in the NY we've been freezing our tails off for the past week. They say it hasn't been this cold since 1996. I'm not surprised because I believe 2013…
When you buy something you expect to get the value for what you paid for. Times are hard out there and consumers such as myself like to make sure we get our money's worth. This new economy has turned us into deal hawks.…
Around twenty years ago the most profound musical renaissance happened. At least to my ears and eyes. Yes, 90's rap ruled. These were the years that I stewed and brewed my teens and twenties. From Nas to Tupac to Biggie…
It is up to each individual to determine what is of importance and what will be a passing moment never to be recalled. If History was only a record of past events then honor would only be forced respect. However they are…
What a beautiful day and based on my vantage point I see blue skies ahead. A new year and new reasons to be hopeful. It ain't all bad and even if it is there's, always someone who has it worse. Let's not focus on the unc…
My internal alarm clock was on snooze this morning. Felt like I needed another 8 as if I ever get anything near that much. Yesterday was busy and today will be a zoo. What's all the commotion you ask? Read on...There are…
First things first, I liked to say so happy to be back. I bet you thought themuxluxblog.com was Gone for Good. Well your right, sort of. I was Gone away on business for a few days and have some Good stories to tell. I'll…
It's the playoffs and my team, the Jets didn't make it again. Oh well there's always next year. Just when I thought my weekend couldn't be salvaged, something special happened on this past Friday. Themuxluxblog.com celeb…
On the flipside of the coin and who many would call there better half, themuxluxblog.com is proud to present its take on WOMEN. The cornerstone of civilization, the catalyst of life and the nurturer of all things. Women…
I never bought into the notion of a battle of the sexes between men and women or a Venus versus Mars duel. I look at the two as pieces to a puzzle that need each other to complete. Now understanding each side, is a diffe…
The favorite part of my day is the end of the day when I jiggle the keys in the door lock and press my ear to the door like a stethoscope to listen for the internal sound of my kids scattering around the house. Suddenly…
A late night trip to the gym and I hit the treadmill for a run. I finish up and reach for my water bottle when I notice something. There was a magazine rack covered in dust. Look like it was there for a year. I don't kno…
Can you guestimate how many times your heart will beat in your lifetime? I never really thought about it till now. I suppose it would beat forever if nothing stopped it. I'm hoping mines hits a trillion. That's a thousan…
The mysterious activities at my childhood home was more than what my family bargained for. I chalked up my first occurrence as maybe an active imagination but when it repeated itself, I knew it was real and something I h…
The new year always gives you fresh batteries to go a day further into your resolution than you did the year before. I finally dragged my butt back to the gym after a six and a half month hiatus. I consider it my cool do…
Looking out of my window I see the sun on it's decent. So beautiful it sort of hypnotizes me and I fall into a deep thought of where to eat. When suddenly a flash of three very loud kids breeze by me and all I feel is th…
Did I ever tell you the story about the time...Sorry but the 1st story of the year that needs to be told won't be today. I'm saving that one for next week. Today is the 1st Friday of the year and if your ever gonna get f…
Pardon the interruption...and just like that the miraculous post has appeared. I have a call of duty of some sort to leave no day unrecorded in the world of themuxluxblog.com. Things are moving along and I'm really excit…
If I could sum up the day it would be less than stellar and more irritating than a repeating kid that sounded like a Parrot. Where that analogy came from is the same place the day has winded up. No particular reason to b…
Welcome to 2013 where your spirit is alive, you have drive in your heart and the possibilities are endless. I brought in the New Year with a KISS(keep it simple stupid)popped a few bottles and woke up feeling refreshed.…
Seemed like yesterday that 2012 whisked in and punched us in the gut. So it's only right that I write this irregularly long paragraph of themuxluxblog.com year end review. Why not kick it off with the world of hip hop, s…
I was going through an old photo album and came across some classic pictures of my parents. When people get together and have kids, you never know what combination of the gene pool you'll get. Always good to get someone…
The fastest rising sport is MMA. It's the truth. No team situation just you and your opponent, mano a mano. If you follow it you know the new breed that are excelling in this sport is wrestlers. Wrestlers are the toughes…
How do you work out a deal when some players don't want to play? You make them look bad. Just think about it. Wouldn't you prefer to taking a picture of yourself when you're fresh and clean rather than when you first wak…
You know money can buy you a lot of things and sure can give you a peace of mind. The access you receive from king dollar is legendary but their is one that wields even greater power and they are called the gatekeepers.…
Now that the holidays are over and the run on the after Christmas sales and returns have begun, what's next? Good question because IDK but what I will tell you is that I'll be working on my year in review for next week.…
Merry Christmas to all who reads this and for the ones who will eventually, the same to you. Today is the one day of the year regardless of your faith or religious belief that we all recognize in some form shape or fashi…
And why do I feel more tired than when I come home from work? It's because the holidays are stressful if you give a hoot. Which I do! Caring takes a lot more out of you than hating. That's for sure! I got kids that have…
Everyone is still sleeping in my house the day after the trip into NYC. It was a late night great night success. Hey the NYC never sleeps and neither does themuxluxblog.com. It never disappoints either. Here's a highligh…
There are few things that I love and hate at the same time. But as a Warren family tradition, the annual pilgrimage to see the Christmas Tree at Rockefeller Center was The Trip that had to be taken to complete our holida…
What's a good synonym for something that was to suppose to end civilization as we know it on the particular date of 12/21/12...oh yeah, the word Bullsh*t comes to mind. No man knows the date or time and with that being s…
What if the fiscal cliff shrinks down to the size of my curb and falling off it only gets you a scraped knee? What if the guy Psy from the Gangnam Style fame was a bad experiment gone terribly right and he made a sucky s…
Haven't had much time to watch TV lately, be it my tablet or phone the shows have been lacking my interest. So coming home to an empty house was a quiet surprise as the rat pack was out shopping. I felt like Al Bundy fro…
Today I would like to highlight a special up and coming talent. My nephew Kydadon. The son of my Bro (J) I will say there is no shortage of talent and the apple don't fall far from the tree. Boy they sure don't make 16 y…
What does walking and riding a bike have in common? Balance! The only way to achieve these basic activities is to have equal distribution of weight applied at the right moment and it produces forward movement. So where i…
Let's switch it up today. The cheer mode has been activated and the Christmas hustle and bustle is in full effect. Parking lot pimping is back and packed. I had to fight my way in and out of a couple stores and you bette…
Processing the unthinkable from an outsider looking in is a tough pill to swallow. Imagine actually going through it is way too overwhelming. You can't. These families were robbed of there joy just before the holidays. I…
My heart is broken, my words have disappeared and my emotions are exhausted. Suffer not the children for they are our most precious asset. The innocence and promise lost from this unthinkable nightmare can never be repla…
Can you believe another anniversary has passed themuxluxblog.com? Five months and counting... The best thing about my job @themuxluxblog is everything. I am living proof you can breathe life into anything you want to do.…
It's the twelfth day of the twelfth month of the twelfth year in this new Millennium. The worlds tilting into a new territory of unexplainable. Anyone and everyone is being touched by it in some form or fashion. Technolo…
The really intriguing people in life will never make it to TV or have a star on the Hollywood walk of fame but they are the stories that writers dream of. There is no shortage of this phenomenon and part of themuxluxblog…
After a long day at work, It's time to redirect my energy to what matters... Me. Well after the kids and wife then me. Oh but the day is still young. A few hours left for the honey do list and the rest is for the think t…
Since starting themuxluxblog.com I've made a concerted effort not to self promote or endorse many things until the time is right. I forget that my partner and brother Is one of the greatest writers of all time who has cr…
Everybody should have somtething to make themselves feel better. Being in a pissy mood shouldn't be a permanent way of life. Just the fact that it's Saturday, the weekend and your able to read this post should be enough…
You ever talk to someone who has no clue of what's going on in the world. Then I talked to someone who I had no clue of what was going on in their world. So what we have here is a failure to communicate or at the very le…
What comes down must sooner or later go up. The sunshine will reappear here especially at themuxluxblog.com. We need a little cheermeister up in here after the last few days. So I'll give you some nonsense facts to start…
I never like to start the day on a somber note but it has come to my attention that my neighbor from yesterday's post has passed away. Let me first give my condolences to his family and secondly say that "Ken was a good…
Received a phone call from my neighbors house last night informing me he was very sick in the hospital. I was shocked to here the severity of the situation as that I've known this family for years. So I walked across the…
Tis the season to be jolly and to start your holiday checklist. Yesterday was my quest for a Christmas Tree. When I find a good deal I usually go back. So off to Home Depot me and the family went. As soon as I pull in th…
There's a time and place for everything in life. There's a time to fight, a time to hold on, a time to let go and I can go on and on. The key is not to force a circle into a square peg. It won't fit. Letting your life an…
December 1st already! That means 30 days till 2013, four weeks to next year and if you sneeze long enough you'll miss Christmas. It seems like Time is in a hurry like he's late for work or stole something. Well I'll tell…
Today feels promising. I know this because I woke up on the right side of the bed with a clear mind almost like I took a mental dump(TMI maybe). Nothing like a good night sleep to spark some inspiration. Yeah, themuxluxb…
The best things in life are free unless you wake up and find yourself 580 million dollars richer. That's Powerball rich! What would you do with a half billion dollars? Sounds crazy just saying it but someones going to ha…
As more eyes are made aware of themuxluxblog.com, I feel it's my duty to periodically give a tutorial on the origins and some must knows of this new phenomenon. That sounded pretty good! Sometimes I'm even amazed by my M…
Another month almost gone and I almost forgot to give you themuxluxblog.com monthly poem. Better late than never. This ones a blast from the past I wrote years ago. Enjoy! -When I look at you I see me -When I look at me…
The best part of waking up is #Foldgers in your cup. That was a line from an old coffee commercial. Some things I can't get out of my head. Actually the best part of waking up is waking up. Here at themuxluxblog.com were…
I look for inspiration any and everywhere. You need material from your environment to build a better life. At least that's the way I see it. Since I started themuxluxblog.com I get to see the full 360 of myself and every…
Every man and woman have a different kind of make up that drives there destiny. Some reach for very little while others reach for it all. I watched a very good show on the History channel called 'The Men Who Made America…
Today was a interesting day. I got a chance to see a lot of different things while I was out and about. The most profound was a drive into an area heavily devastated by hurricane Sandy. Talk about something out of a movi…
Happy Thanksgiving. It's officially here. The day we give thanks for all that's good in life. As we gather around the table or make our way to one, the number one question is...when do we eat! We don't play in the Warren…
Bridges are designed to connect the inhabitable to the masses. You know it creates a link that bonds and brings us together. The word bridge is used in countless metaphors and rhymes. When the bond is strong many good wi…
What is the world coming to. First the Fat Boys break up, now this! No more Twinkies to brighten the world! I'm starting to believe corporations are really people manifested into heartless Gordon Gecko Grinch type charac…
One of my favorite holidays is coming in three days. It brings back the best childhood memories. Sometimes we had a little, sometimes we had a lot but we always had a more food than we knew what to do with it. Thanksgivi…
There's always one joy killer in any group of friends or family. You know the one who always disagrees with the majority fun rule. "Let's go to mall", they reply "No I don't got any money". "So and so's birthday's next w…
I'm hard wired with a warriors heart. I love a challenge. Life lesson #2080 war is avoidable but sometimes necessary. When does conflict resolution begin and end? That's the million dollar question that you want to have…
Thank God it's Friday! That may not mean a damn thing for someone who works the weekend but don't let that get you down, look on the bright side! Well in the past several weeks I've really finally understood on a persona…
Looking at my current timeline of life, I would say I've been a lucky man so far. Actually my mother(God bless her soul) would say I'm extremely Blessed. Maybe even born that way? You can try to plan your future but you…
Everything doesn't have a name for it. I remember when I was in a becoming a man a friend told me about t'aint. You know that piece section of private parts that's between the rooter and the tooter. Well if it t'aint one…
Learning to make lemonade out of lemons is becoming an art around here. Due to that chick Sandy I recently had to cut down part of my kids favorite tree in the front of my yard . While I was sawing down some bigger branc…
Funny how time flies when your offline. I've missed my brainchild and we've got some catching up to do. First I would like to say it's great to be back at themuxluxblog.com. Sorry for the few days away. Sometimes a routi…
You know that feeling of bliss you only get from a few things in life. Not the self centered kind of satisfying your own personal goal but that shared euphoria from being apart of or growing something from seed to full b…
I had a funky dream last night. The kind that makes no initial since until maybe a day later. Well In the dream, I was in the back seat of a car laughing. Then I realized I had to get out immediately because there was so…
This Is It America. One more day of political posturing, commercials, and arguments. I'm so tired of polls telling who's got momentum and who's sucking wind. Like I always say "it's gonna come down turnout". Who's team w…
In the scheme of things you never realize how fragile order and peace is until regular resources you are accustomed to get taken away or become scarce. Survival mode kicks in and chaos is ready to take advantage of the s…
I much prefer to pat someone on the back than slap them in the face. A few days ago I had a very bad experience with TD bank and let it be known via my blog post on themuxluxblog.com. Didn't think much of it after the po…
What a week in review. Where should I start? Okay the storm of the century has come and gone. Unpredictable damaged in my own back yard. Last night was so surreal for me when I saw a gas station line stretch for over a m…
I'm normally not the one to go on a rant. I usually leave that up to the wife. But today I'm putting TD Bank on BLAST for nickel and diming and nastiness. It started like this. During the storm the bank shut down midday…
The ability to discern between the real and the fake, the facts and lies, the good intent and bad is implanted in all of us. Some have more of the gift, others have less. In my family we seem to be well endowed in readin…
Sandy has come and gone, and boy did she leave her mark. As big as the East coast and bipolar. Changing from Hurricane to Tropical Cyclone/Noreaster. The 1st Frankenstorm of it's kind. I'm sure you'll get your full of Fa…
The countdown has started for the super storm of the century. As my Empire state braces for something even the computer models have never seen, I type today's post looking out of my window watching the invisible bully ro…
Since starting themuxluxblog.com I've learned to manage my time better. It's made my decision making more decisive and even improved my reflexes. With results like these I should bottle it up and sell it. However I've de…
For the skeptics who say that theirs no change to Earth's climate, I got news for you...A storms a brewing. I've lived in New York all my life and since I was a kid, I always looked forward to the Fall Winter transition.…
Shelter can provide many things essential to a stable life. You are born to a specific environment based on your upbringing. Some are born in wealth. Some are born in poverty. Other are right dab smack in the middle. The…
Nothing is sacred anymore. All bets are off. I was working the other day and over heard these two guys talking. Probably around 18 or 19 and the sh*t that came out of there mouths even made me blush(look at my picture I'…
There is so much opportunity around us right now. A lot of pent up demand and it's busting at the seams. We all have learned to readjust our pocket books and reevaluate our priorities. Americans are being more cautious h…
Okay here's the skinny. Mitt Romney endorses President Barack Obama's foreign policy. What the hell just happened. He pretty much agreed with every thing the President said. This dude is too confusing for me! Sometimes h…
You ever watch one of those time elapsed videos where you see a seed turn into a flower. Or the exact opposite where a flower wilts and dies. It's pretty amazing how things are transforming all around us but sometimes we…
Reality can really blow a high especially when you think you got everything under control. That's why drugs always find its way in society because people want to escape if just for a moment the harshness of life. No one…
It's good for me that life begins when you start it because I've been late to a party or two. As long as your above ground you can't get disqualified for going after your goals. Sometimes something as little as missing a…
I used to think money was the key to happiness and boy was I right. Just kidding(LOL). For some that's all they know. Growing up privileged is a blessing and curse. Having access to the best can set you up to succeed but…
Hey, did I ever tell you the story of some unexplained events at the house that I grew up in? I'm not a superstitious person and in fact my parents were the most God fearing people you'd meet. But there was something goi…
I know I'm late to the party but I've been working nonstop for the last day or so. It's a good thing to be busy. In any case here's my 4 cent assessment. Round two did not disappoint and at times I thought PBO and MR wer…
Quote this! Never under estimate your opponent and never give away your power. If you have something to give put your chips in and show your cards. If you have something to hide show the wrong cards and bluff like a mofo…
Good Monday morning you back to workers, millionaires, billionaires, moms, dads, college goers and whomever else I forgot to mention. Top of the week and start of the day that will shape the rest. Have you ever noticed t…
People can spend a lifetime trying to find what their good at. When searching for your purpose you tend to waste a lot of productive time on things other than the obvious. We all have multiple abilities that we can excel…
Back for another round of poetic justice or just some good spoken word. Themuxluxblog.com monthly lyric...enjoy. *In a room full of smiles I was the only one weeping *Silently keeping my lonely heart at bay *Though my sc…
Who loves a Friday more than themuxluxblog.com? No reply needed. But If you have to work Saturday morning could you really enjoy it like want to? Yeah you can, but for a price. I've never been the one to turn down a Long…
You can get a lot accomplished in 90 days. Its a transformational period of time. You start to see results in this stretch like a p90-x before and after. I'm proud to announce the three month Anniversary of themuxluxblog…
Trying to predict life's outcomes would take a time machine and a lot of luck. People would pay big money to get it right the first time. But that defeats the purpose of trial and error and to quote myself "life equals m…
We all know that life's not fair but there are some things that just ain't right. My bone to pick today is the corporate greed of companies and employers who are making record profits but are not spreading the wealth to…
It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday and even harder to so say hello to Monday. Hope all had a great weekend. I for one did and look forward to what the week will bring. I've been working on my year end synopsis and…
The corner stones of any business would be structure and planning. That's a belief I believe many would agree with. If you wanted to be creative you need vision to see past planning and structure. The more boundless your…
This has been a busy week for news with Nicki Minaj/Mariah Carey alleged Threat. The first Presidential Debates that had both sides being shaken up. Then the week ending Jobs report that clearly shows the good old U.S.A…
Having first dibs on something is almost always the prefered. Really, who wants sloppy seconds? Well that depends on what it is. It's always a race to the top. Gotta be the first one to claim that prize or recognize what…
I made a joke yesterday that the 1st Presidential Debate should have been a pay per view event and that the proceeds should have gone to the 47%. That's why I'm not a comedian. Romney seemed like he was amped up on some…
It can take a lifetime to reveal oneself. Unless you get a book deal with a fat signing bonus. Yeah I bet that would speed up the process. Nothing like an incentive to get you to open up. Are rewards the key to unlocking…
Take three things you love in life like the obvious ones, family, friendship and money. Well maybe those aren't the obvious things for everybody but you get the idea. Then subract it by three things you hate like pissy a…
I like to eat and foody is my middle name. Iron chef and Diners Drive-ins and Dives keep my pallet always looking for the next best dish. My mother-in law is a incredible cook. She knows how to put a twist on almost ever…
At almost 6' 2" you would think I'd be a great candidate for a point guard. You know a baller. But believe it or not I'm from a family of great wrestlers. Our type cast definitely didn't fit the description growing up. M…
Reviewing my finite amount of wisdom and verbal cuisine I serve you everyday, I realized I never discussed love and happiness. Even Al Greene would agree that I danced around happy but not much mention about love. Well t…
Something about Friday's that brings a smile to most of our faces. End of the work week and start of the weekend. It sort of gives you permission to let loose and act a fool. Also the best day to start celebrating. Speak…
Seems like opinions move the needle further than any fact and in fact you can create your own headline that can rival any major media outlet. If my theory proves me correct then Twitter produces a Pulitzer prize Tweet ev…
You ever get the run around from a friend or relative you've been trying to reach. Especially when you talk to them all the time but all of a sudden they are MIA. They won't answer calls or return texts. They won't even…
I have a new appreciation for the men and women who teach our kids. Now I've been to quite a few meet the Teacher nights but last night I was impressed. First of all the the fourth grade is nothing like I remembered. By…
What's a good word for wishing you could permanently extend your day off? Oh yeah, that's called being 'Rich'! So what's a good word for reminding yourself that your not Rich? Oh yeah, that's called Monday! Are you ready…
This morning I woke up with a taste for Frosted Flakes cereal. It just so happen my son woke me up asking for the same thing. Luckily we had bought a box the other day. I normally don't eat much cereal this early but for…
Trying to catch up on sleep is like running barefoot in wet sand. It sucks and slows you down! You can tell by my stupid analolgy that the lack of sleep affects your brain process and the words that come out of your mout…
Had to get up a little earlier than I normally do the last few days. Once I leave the door next destination is to get a cup of Joe. As I'm pulling into my local 7/11 I notice about 8 day laborers standing along the fence…
The truth usually lies somewhere in between reality and fact. Lies usually fall somewhere in between decepetion and hiding. One will set you free, the other will smother you with false relief. Living with a lie can be a…
Ideas alone won't make you rich or save the world. For long lasting success nothing replaces hard work dedication and never quitting. This is my formula and a lot of others too! Sticking to a plan and watching your baby…
With so much good material out from yesterday I had to scrap my original topic and touch on some of the heat that's out there. American Idol has two Queen Bee's aboard with Mariah Carey and Nicki Minaj. What kind of comb…
Teaching my kids the value of a dollar has turned them into saving machines. It started over the summer when they wanted some money for ice cream. They were use to walking by loose change and not picking it up. So I chal…
I work in the transportation industry and have a unique vantage point on how people behave. It's a trip, let me tell you. I interact with all types of individuals on every different socioeconomic levels from high to low.…
It's that special time of the year when the kids go back to school and Baseball starts to wind down. An extra boost of testosterone starts to kick in and suddenly you awake and it's Football season again. All the men tha…
Here's where we stand. The economy is local and depending on your household financial situation, determines how you view the direction of the economy. I got hit early at the end of 2008. Being laid off or for better word…
The brain sends electrical currents or signals through a vast network of neurons or organic wires through your nervous system to control different parts of your body. It's like turning on a switch or plugging in an appli…
Two months in to this grand experiment called themuxluxblog.com and its daily voice is taking on a life of its own. Some of the most common questions I get is how did you come up with the name and how do you pronounce it…
Eleven years ago to the day on a beautiful Tuesday my day began like any. Waking up to my alarm and springing out of bed to start my morning commute. The daily hour and a half trip from Long Island to Midtown New York wa…
Monday morning means start of the work week for most. You reset your go button and get ready for the grind ahead. My morning routine kicks in about 5:30AM for the 1st wizz of the day followed making a pot of coffee, fift…
One man's problem is another man's cakewalk. That's if you like cake. The biggest nuisance to an already annoying day is a call from your bill collecter. Now everybody should be able to relate to the annoyance of this oc…
Each month themuxluxblog.com dedicates a day to the spoken or should I say written word of poetry. It's sort of becoming a tradition. So kick back and take this one in. *Emotionally nautious exhausted cautious *Actually…
You can't fake passion and charisma. Actually you can but you won't make an emotional connection. People are drawn to themes and more importantly truths. If you can speak with a little pizazz, showmanship and a lot of th…
I know I'm getting older but damn I'm not that old. The sitcoms I use to watch when I was a kid are long forgotten or not even heard of by my younger friends and family. Sanford and Son was a must see in my house. Fred a…
I steal little gems of wisdom from everyone I meet and add it to my armor. Yesterday was my lesson of what really is important. What would you rate the most important asset you have? You can get fifty different answers f…
Two things you don't discuss at the workplace is race and politics. I'm glad themuxluxblog.com is not my day job. Being so close to the election it's so hard for me not to inject my two cents. We all know opinions are li…
Happy Labor Day all. Excuse my late posting but I was a little busy today. I had the bright idea to go shopping with the family on the Christmas of school shopping days. Don't get me wrong I do my share of buying for the…
In the spirit of Labor Day I would like to salute the gal and guy that gets up every morning for the daily grind. There elbow grease helps keep all of us functioning and somewhat sane. I get up every morning and sometime…
If you put a carrot in front of a horse, how long do you think he would chase it before he got tired and quit? I have know way of answering that question as you would guess because horses can't talk. However I have a goo…
Can you believe the Summer's almost gone and I've gotten about 5 things out of 25 done on my summer to do list. Can't complain though, spent a lot of time at the beach. Picked up a couple of new hobbies, fishing and such…
A whisper can't be heard in a loud room, unless you scream and everything goes quiet. While watching the Republican convention on the first night I was very quiet. Listening to there views of which direction they would t…
My relationship with baby girl started to blossom around the same time I met my future wife. Everything was falling in place. I soon got married and we were expecting our first baby. As I told miss thing of the news she…
As baby girl grew bigger I grew smaller inside. My trips home from school were met with me and miss thing fighting in between trying to work things out. It was an ugly time. I was not much help and she was having another…
Ahh yes. I took care of that little problem. The Universe is back in order. I just finished wrapping up shooting my first movie. Heading to college with nothing but air beneath my wings. I'm so Hollywood that I don't liv…
I was told by my brother Willie, I had and interesting and funny life. That people wanted to hear about it. By all accounts he might be right. So in the spirit of themuxluxblog.com it's only right that I open up the book…
Are we not all Americans? Of course we are. Don't we all share the same values? Of course not. We share the same resources like water, air, roads, and such. You know the commons, things we all use. We should all share de…
Coming to a couch near you. The full integration of new media technology is upon us. Soon all your online digital pleasures will be accessible through your television and other devices. You damn near can do everything wi…
I love it when a plan comes together. Especially when you use what you got to get what you want. There's nothing wrong with a little hook-up when you need it. Your only one connection away from your dream or an easier ro…
There's nothing worst than being stuck in traffic with the gas light on. Road raging so fierce, that people who drive by roll up their window when they see your face. Gotta get home. Got things to do! How do you prioriti…
I'm a logical dude. Taking the complex situations and reducing it to the simple. I have a Master's degree in Common Sense and a B.S. in B.S. Which means I can out wit the average idiot. My grasp of understanding is vast…
You know the difference between a good first date and a next morning breakfast in bed first date? The approach. It's all in the approach. How you present yourself to others can turn them on or off. I remember my late gre…
Greed can be most enjoyable and guilt free, when you have a surplus of whatever your buying or consuming. I know I didn't need to eat that extra 2 slices of pizza but I couldn't help myself. Someone had to order an extra…
Throughout the history of mankind, where there are two or more dwelling together, disagreements have led to conflicts. These conflicts spread as the population became more advanced and diverse. As these tribes and ethnic…
I heard about an experiment were total strangers were given a briefcase thought to be filled with money. They were asked to hold onto it till the person came back from running an errand. The results was a 100% success ra…
Inflating a balloon is as easy as inflating an ego on flex fuel. When things are going better than great, we tend to lose sight that what goes up must come down. It can be a hard landing coming from the mountain top. You…
Over the years I've been privy to personal and sensitive information from friends and family, acquaintances and strangers alike. Mainly requesting a familiar ear to unload their troubles and self correct their issues. So…
I feel like another one. Themuxluxblog.com is in the poetry mood again, like to here it, here it goes. *Man to man tell me what you command *Can you orchestrate a war or bring peace to the land *Maybe feeling like an ins…
Choose your weapon, knife, bat, sword, gun, or pen. Which one do you think would win? Of course the any lot of them could kill you but the pen could bring you back to life. Yes the pen is mightier than the sword and word…
The beauty of democracy is it's a inclusive system of governing. Everyone can participate at some level. In essence each individual can affect change. Your political ideology will steer you to the candidate of you liking…
Once upon a time there were two brothers who had a dream to provide the world with exceptional literary content.This was a promise made by desire to see this pledge through. Here's a quick trivia question. What does Wood…
Before I get started, I have a confession to make. Something I need to get off my chest. Yes, I am a mental Hoarder. I collect and store in my mind every idea, image, sound, sight, and memory of my 40 year existence. One…
The first law of nature is self preservation. Simply put, protecting oneself against harm or danger. That's hard wired in our DNA. There are different degrees and variations of this basic instinct. This rule doesn't only…
I'm a big Gumbo fan. It's got a little bit of this and a little bit of that. With just the right mix of unlikely ingredients, you get a delicious meal with it's own distinct taste. Sort of like the great U.S. of A. The m…
Oh, don't you wish the Olympics could go on all summer. With only one week left I'm feeling a little depressed. Team USA is kicking some butt. A lot of surprises and some disappointment, but overall I've really enjoyed t…
Wake up world. To my billion plus brothers and sisters who buy or brew the liquid drag. We salute your caffeinated tribute to the King of all pick me ups. The morning maker, no doze annihilator and needs no introduction.…
The molecular cell structure of your body changes every 7 years. I don't remember where I read that from but I'll fact check it by the end of this discussion. Then in essence we become a slightly different person in ever…
While walking out of my door, down two steps to the left, I come across a brigade of ants. Normally I step on all of them because they have an army stationed throughout my front yard. Now before I get the Carpenter Ants…
I dedicate today's inspiration to every little fly on the wall that watches the intricacies of life but doesn't seize the moment. Today is your DAY! The time is NOW! So put down that doughnut and take off your shoes. Wer…
You ever curse someone out without saying a word? Sure you have you. What about that look you got from your mother just before she broke out the belt. Before those words come out your mouth your body language is giving a…
On a serious note I want to use my voice to bring awareness to a subject that's at crisis levels in America. There is a epidemic of violence and killings in the urban communities. The Hood gone wild! Young black and Lati…
Free time is hard to come by in my world. A twenty eight hour day would be just perfect. The extra four hours is for me to catch up on me. Time is one of those commodities that you never get enough of. It sucks when you…
Ahh, another glorious Monday. It's that day of the week you try to forget and hate the most. It usually comes in two flavors, bad and worse. Though every now and then a set of unexpected events happen that bring a smile…
The characters I come across in my daily travels make life worth living. I've met and known people from all walks of life. From the bum on the street to the owner of a hedge fund and everything in between. The different…
A little over a year ago I started going back to the gym. In the old high school days I was a star athlete in tip top shape. Years of conditioning gave me a iron body. Then I went to college and that all changed. let's j…
Today starts the opening ceremony of the 2012 Olympics in London. Setting the stage for the worlds premier competition. The most elite athletes put their years of training and discipline on the line for a chance at the c…
Ever so often change is good. Switching things up and going outside your normal routine can get the creative juices going, among other things. At themuxluxblog.com we dance to the tune of our own drums and we bang em har…
They say curiosity killed the cat. Thank God I'm not a cat. For some unknown reason I observe everything. Large or small, unusual or insignificant. So for the last month or so I've been eying this storefront sign that I…
WTF! Was yesterday slap a fool day. Or take an idiot to work day. Maybe nasty is what nasty does. Then I came across the Queen of Stankonia, misery incarnate. Trust me I'm a very patient man but it took a lot of restrain…
This was one weekend for the record books. A lot of things going on in my life, your, and the worlds life. Everything seems to recycle itself and each time around were supposed to get better and better. Or at least that'…
I'm all about fairness and due to a slight case of OCD, I can't help but to make sure everyone in my circle get's their fair share of what ever I have to give. My kids would tell you no different. My daughter once asked…
As of late I've been noticing an imbalance in our world that's becoming more and more lopsided. The days, weeks, and months seem to pass so fast that I find myself saying "Is it summer again". The weather is getting hott…
I'm sitting on my think couch trying to figure out how to start this story. So I'll give you a few examples of some of my intro's. Cash Rules Everything Around Me. Moolah Only Needs Excitement Yeah. People Are People Exc…
If your hungry, here comes some serious food for thought. I mean some real organic stimulation. Enough to give any mental constipation a brain fart. What if everyone was rich? Would motivation take a permanent vacation a…
We are the products of random souls coming together as one to create this most precious existence called life. Once we exit our mothers womb, survival begins and depends on the pair who ushered us in. The choice of who a…
Introducing the salty seductive curvy when heated, undisputed King and Queen of guilty pleasures(drum roll please)Bacon. What an intro for a slab of cured pork bellies. Bacon is melting the hearts of countless Americans…
In this day and age, money is not the easiest thing to come by. The job market is so tight that you have people with PHD's competing for entry level telemarketing gigs then losing to someone with a better resume. I know…
As per request of my 4 year old son, and I quote "dad you should talk about Jesus and God because its Sunday". So I will honor his request. Yes I'm a Christian. I believe Jesus is the son of God. My daddy was a preacher…
Here's a mental picture for you. Take one billion dollars, an RV road trip across America, a plate of my Aunt Mary Alice famous fried chicken and you get my wish list for the day. Now that I have your attention I was thi…
Now that the summer has officially kicked off, I wanted to sit back, reflect and do some forward thinking. The kids are with grandpa for a few weeks and I get some stress free grown folk time. As I fix me a drinky drink,…
Is it just me or is talking on your cell phone so 1990's. Well I think I'm the only one that still does. While walking in my local Stop n Shop chatting away I notice heads turn and looks of disdain float by me. Then I he…
Since this is my inaugural blog and 1st entry, I'm feeling pretty Presidential and want to add my 3 cents to the 24 hour media cycle bonfire. Just a disclaimer, I am a Obama supporter, that can weigh the pro's cons of bo…